Must be cruel to be kind.

I have a confession today. I'm being quite cruel as I've made a drastic decision. I've to reject a kid to my kindy just because he's such a handful and brings bad influence to others. The father accused me of being inexperienced and giving up on an innocent child. He can label and criticized me and my staffs but by all means we just can't cope with his "special" child anymore.

I told him nicely that his son needs better teachers and school as the son needs special attention with his special needs of having uncontrollable bowel, disruptive in class and playing too rough with others. We've tried so many approaches and methods within 3 months but nothing seems work. In fact, his son is becoming worse every single day. Within those 3 months, he bit one of his classmates twice, hurt other kids couple of times and never show any improvements in toilet training at all.

So, before things really get out of hand, yes I've to let go of the child for the sake of other children and also our peace of mind for not having to worry on how to train or discipline him anymore.

Human's mind is AMAZING!

One of its kind!

There's this one boy who joined our kindy in January this year. He's really one of its kind. WHY? Well, to begin with, he's quite rough. I thought that's normal for a boy. But NO...His only way to play with other kids is by punching, beating, kicking or even worst biting! We've tried all sorts of methods to explain to him that those are not acceptable in school. His problem don't just stop there. He has another BIG problem. He doesn't know how to tell when he already pooped! He can play as usual and continue to play until the stool become sticky in his underwear. Again, we've tried all sorts of things to encourage him to tell us as it's really tiring just to wash him until 6X each day. He won't finish his 'business' all at once that's why he'll do so many times. His father asked us to check on him and ask him every hour! We don't have to luxury to do that as we have to attend to other kids as well. Plus he's already 5 years old not a toddler anymore!

For those who have sons, if you have encountered any of those problems before, would you be kind enough to share with me your tips? I'm quite desperate to do anything possible to help this boy.

Pray for MH370, Not speculate!

EAT!

Annakku Warehouse Sale!!

Dilemma wanita. Minta pandangan. (BM entry)

Masalah seorang wanita:

Ada seorang wanita ni, sudah 10 tahun berkahwin dan ada beberapa orang anak. Dia bekerja sendiri sambil menguruskan anak-anak. Suaminya pulak bekerja di kolej swasta. Sebelum ini mereka berdua tiada masalah besar dalam rumahtangga. Anak-anak mereka pun semua pandai-pandai.

Sejak akhir-akhir ini bila suaminya dinaikkan pangkat dan beban kerja makin bertambah, si isteri ni rasa tak sedap hati. Pada mulanya isteri tak mahu berfikir perkara-perkara negatif atau perkara buruk. Tapi bila si suami selalu sangat balik lewat malam, si isteri lagi rasa tak sedap hati. Bukanlah si isteri nak bersangka buruk tapi menurut si isteri ni, memang perasaan tak sedap hati tu makin kuat.

Jadi, si isteri telah memeriksa telefon bimbit si suami. Bila diperiksa bahagian SMS, si isteri menjumpai beberapa mesej yang agak mencurigakan. Ayat-ayat yang digunakan agak kurang sesuai untuk rakan sekerja si suami. Rakan sekerja itu pula, iya...seorang perempuan bujang. Antara ayat-ayatnya ialah, "See you later, darling". "Let's go and meet in Tesco".

Si isteri bersemuka dengan si suami untuk bertanya lebih lanjut. Menurut si suami, rakan sekerjanya itu suka bergurau. Itu hanya cara dia bergurau. Mereka keluar makan ramai-ramai di Tesco selepas waktu kerja kerana kantin kolej sudah ditutup selepas pkl 8 mlm. Rakan sekerja si suami tu selalu membantunya menyiapkan kerja-kerja pentadbiran selepas waktu pejabat. Hubungan mereka memang tidak lebih dari itu.

Si isteri tidak mahu memanjangkan isu tersebut. Jadi dia hanya meminta si suami berhati-hati dan memastikan mereka hanya membuat urusan kerja dan tidak lebih dari itu.

SEKARANG, APA PENDAPAT YANG LAIN YANG SUDI MEMBACA MASALAH DILEMMA WANITA INI? SALAHKAH SI ISTERI MEMERIKSA TELEFON BIMBIT SUAMI? APA TINDAKAN SEWAJARNYA SELEPAS INI?