Perkembangan terbaru adik saya yg terlibat dlm kebakaran. (BM entry)

Ada entri sebelum ini mengenai kejadian yang menimpa adik saya Mohd Rashdan. Secara ringkasnya dia telah terlibat dalam kebakaran yg memusnahkan rumah yg didiaminya dan isterinya. Rumah tersebut adalah rumah kayu yang telah lama dibina. Punca kebakaran adalah litar pintas dari peti sejuk. Sewaktu kejadian, adik saya cuba memadamkan api dengan menyimbah air. Jadi dia tercedera teruk. Isterinya sempat keluar rumah dan tidak mendapat apa-apa kecedaraan.

Sehingga ke hari ini, Rashdan masih dirawat di Hospital Besar Kota Bharu. Dia mengalami kecedaraan kebakaran tahap 2 di mana belakang, lengan kanan dan mukanya disambar api. Ambulans pada mulanya menghantarnya ke Hospital Tumpat kerana itu yang terdekat dengan lokasi. Tetapi pihak Hospital Tumpat mengatakan kesnya perlu dirujuk ke Hospital Besar Kota Bharu yang mempunya pakar.

Adik saya ni sebenarnya OKU. Begitu juga isterinya. Selama ini dia telah berusaha untuk hidup atas hasil titik peluh sendiri. Kami adik-beradik sangat bangga dengannya. Sebab itulah bila dia telah ditimpa musibah sebegini, rezekinya masih ada. Ramai juga bersimpati dan menderma sedikit untuk meringankan bebannya.

Hari ini atau mungkin esok, insha allah doktor akan menjalankan pembedahan menggantikan sedikit kulit yang teruk tercedera di lengan kanan dengan mengambil sedikit kulit di pehanya. Minta sesiapa yang membaca entri ini mendoakan semoga semuanya berjalan lancar.

Selepas ini kami adik beradik akan cuba merancang dan membantunya untuk bekerja semula selepas sembuh. Bukan mudah rasanya kerana dia tidak akan cergas dan sihat sepenuhnya seperti dulu. Tapi kami percaya Allah akan menggantikan dengan yang lebih baik untuknya. Ini ujian bukan hanya untuk dia dan isteri tapi untuk kami semua yang ada kaitan dengan mereka. Oleh kerana itulah, kami pun turut terkesan dengan kejadian tersebut. Rasanya yang lain, ada pelbagai ujian dalam bentuk lain kan. Yang penting bagaimana kita mahu bangkit selepas itu.


2 gambar adik saya di hospital. Gambar pertama sewaktu hari kedua kejadian. 
Gambar kedua selepas 2 minggu di hospital bila luka makin pulih.
 

Dugaan dan ujian buat kami.

Keratan akhbar Harian Metro mengenai kejadian yg menimpa adik kandung saya dan isterinya.

1995 VS 2014 (Our siblings photo and reshoot trial)

Kalau sudah jodohnya........... (BM entry)

Sudah lama dia mencari idaman hati. Begitu ramai yang dia minati, satu pun tak menjadi. Selalunya dia dipandang sepi. Dek kerana kekurangan diri.

Kalau sudah jodohnya. Memang tak kemana. Akhirnya bersatu jua. Di saksikan sanak saudara.

Kini bermula episod baru. Sudah bergelar "Pengantin Baru". Kedua-duanya agak malu-malu. Mungkin kerana diusik selalu.

Tahniah sekali lagi adindaku dan isterinya; Mohd Rashdan dan Siti Amnah.

Kak Nur doakan kalian sentiasa berbahagia. Banyakkan bersabar dalam mengharungi pancaroba. Alam rumahtangga banyak dugaan dan cubaannya. Bukan mudah mengapai bahagia, tapi jangan hilang kasih-sayang di antara kalian berdua.

A new beginning of another journey.

Dear Asul,

I was so happy to be able to send you yesterday to a place where you'll begin another meaningful journey in your life. Hopefully everything is okay and you'll make yourself comfortable. Maybe you had concealed your true feelings when you could see that other students had so many relatives sending them to that Centre For Foundation Studies UIA, BUT you only had me, your brother in-law and your nieces sending you. Well, it doesn't matter so much because you know the fact that all of our family members are in fact feel so proud of you and they have done all they could to appreciate your hard work before. All you have to do now is to concentrate on your study and achieve more success. You know that I'm just few kilometres away from that place and you can always count on me.

Hopefully She is His Mrs Right.

Salam,

During October last year, I wrote a special entry sharing about my younger brother, Rashdan. He's a special person since he has some disabilities (though not so severe) but he never let his disabilities to stop him from being a successful businessman. I expressed my concern about him in that special entry. (You can go HERE, to read my previous entry about him) .

One of my aunts (Mok Ngoh) who always lends her ears hearing about my brother's problems, has helped to find someone. She asked around and she received some helps from her colleagues. There is one suitable woman that some people has suggested. So, Mok Ngoh told my brother about her. He was so excited and he went to the woman's house with one of my uncles just to meet her brother and of course the woman herself.

Now, they have some kind of relationship when they are communicating with each other through the text messages (SMS). My brother has asked me to go back to Kelantan during the next school holiday by th eend of May. Unofficially, he has giving me the task of being a WEDDING PLANNER. I'm honoured and excited to help him since I feel so obliged as his eldest sister.

Right now, I'm putting everything on a paper so that I can see the lists of WHAT TO DO. Does anyone out there has some experience on this? Would you like to share some ?

Good luck to my dear brother- Mohd Rasul b. Rosly

Salam,

I hope it'sm not too late for me to dedicate this special entry to my younger brother; Mohd Rasul b. Rosly. He's going to sit SPM starting from today until in the middle of December. He's my youngest brother and he's the second last child in my family. He has always achieve excellent results in any exams including straight A's in UPSR and PMR. I'm not boasting about him here but I can't help myself to feel proud of him. When we lost our beloved mum 2 years ago, we were so worried about him as our mum passed away just three months before PMR examination. Alhamdulillah (Thanks to Allah), he still managed to pass with flying colours.

As usual I have a short poem that I have created just for him. Though I'm not sure if he still have the time to visit my blog and read this poem, I just want to express something here:

You Shall Strive

When you are so determine,

You know what to do,

You have the focus,

You have the faith,

You have prepared,

You have done every possible thing,

And YOU SHALL STRIVE,

THEN YOU SHALL SUCCEED.

Do any of your siblings, nieces, nephews or any relatives will also sit for SPM starting from today? If yes, let's all pray for their success.

He's not like Datuk Dr. Sheikh Muszaphar BUT.......

Salam,

Almost every night, he calls me and pester me to help him. He's so lonely now and in desperately in need of a wife. He's not like Datuk Dr. Sheikh Muszaphar  who is so famous, well- educated, handsome and definitely was one of the MOST ELIGIBLE BACHELOR in Malaysia (well, he's getting married this Sunday so he that's why he was).  BUT..............................on the other hand, HE in my story here is somehow a total opposite version of Datuk Dr. Sheikh M. First and foremost he has some disabilities (some speech problems and some parts of his brain was affected by Jaundice- I'm not too sure how to describe this). He's definitely not so famous, his formal education was only until PMR and some Certificates from MARA. He's not handsome but he has other good qualities that can make people to love him.

WHO IS HE?

WHY IS HE CALLING ME EVERY NIGHT?

WHY AM I SHARING HIS STORY HERE?

WHY AM I COMPARING HIM AND DATUK DR. SHEIKH?

ALL RIGHT.....................................

Take a look at his photo first

Name: Mohd Rashdan bin Rosly

Age: 31.

Job: Self-employed.

HE'S ACTUALLY MY YOUNGER BROTHER WHO'S ONLY ONE YEAR YOUNGER THAN ME. I'm comparing him with Datuk Dr. Sheikh Muszaphar because despite of all of the differences, they share one common similarity! They both are a good inspiration to those who know them. My brother, Rashdan is a living proof who has defied the doctors predictions when he was small. Doctors predicted that he won't be able to walk, talk or functioning like other normal person. He was affected by jaundice severely that some parts of his brain was affected. BUT NOW, he looks like a normal person, who's able to read and write at least in Bahasa Melayu, really good in Math, able to ride his motorbike to go to work and is actually quite rich compared to me! (seriously)

His ambition now is just to find a suitable spouse that will be able to take care of him. This responsibility is now mine as her eldest sister. I don't really know where should I find, how should I find and of course who's the best for my dear brother. He claims now there are so many women admire him and would love to be his wife. But choosing a wife for him is not easy as we (my family members and I) want somebody who can really love him and take care of him and not just using him. In the past, he has been conned by so many people who took advantages on him just because he is an honest man. He thinks everybody is as good as him. (dia lurus sgt2 dan senang kena tipu dgn org2 yg suka ambil kesempatan)

I don't why do I share his story here today. Well, about Datuk Dr. Sheikh Muszaphar- I just want to wish him the best for his marriage life as he's getting married this Sunday 10/10/10 to Dr. Halina. I also one of his fan and really admire and feel proud of him too. About my dearest brother, Rashdan- this is an appreciation entry to show how proud am I to be his eldest sister. He has come all the way now and it's only that he's in the middle of choosing the right person for him before he can continue his journey in life. (Insya Allah). I really hope that we (my family members and I) would be able to find a suitable wife for him.

A poem dedicated to my lil. bro. and his wife-to-be.

Salam to all,

                Today (13th Feb. 2010), one of my little brothers is going to be a husband to a lovely girl whom I've met before. I can't believe how time flies! sebenarnya tak sedar yg diri dah tua. huhu They've been engaged for about a year (sebenarnya diaorg dah tunggu kami balik, tapi dah kami belum boleh balik. huhu). And this is the invitation card that has been designed by own brother, Pein (nama manja). -takpe ye kalau tak nampak sgt tulisan sbb bukan nak menjemput kat sini. Yelah saya sendiri tak dpt balik nak menghadiri pernikahan adik sy :( -

This is their sweet photos: (I took these photos from my bro's FB album)

Here's a poem dedicated to them:

On your big day, 

Only hope, pray and wishes,

we could offer,

Only photos and videos,

we would be able to watch,

As on your big day,

I have mixed emotions,

Delighted for both of you,

Glad to welcome a sis-in-law,

 Sorry for not being there to witness,

Sorrow when our late-mum again not there to witness too,

Despite all that,

You deserve to be happy,

You have the right to celebrate this,

You have to be thankful to Allah,

And remember,

this is a new life,

 where both of you,

are going to venture,

where there's ups and downs,

BUT,

nothing's going to ruin your life,

as long as you stay strong,

love each other,

appreciate each other and OF COURSE,

pray to Allah,

and everything Insyaallah will be okay.

This is actually the second time, I miss my siblings' big day. Two years ago, my younger sis Yatie, got married 2 mnths after my mom passed away. I had the chance to help her to choose her wedding clothes and bought some of the guests' souvenirs. For my lil bro Pein, I managed to help a bit with his financial burden. That's all I could do. You might wonder, why am I making this a big deal. It's in fact a big deal for me since I feel responsible as their eldest sis especially we don't have our mum to take care about their weddings. mesti ada org2 lain pun pernah mengalami situasi ini juga kan? jd tak seharusnya sy meminta simpati kan Hopefully everything will go as planned. My sis Yatie, her hubby and baby are in Msia to celebrate this happy day. It's good that they are able to attend the wedding and help Pein. Yatie also wrote something in her blog. To read it, click here. But she wrote in Kelantanese dialect, so those who are not really familiar with the dialect might have some problems to understand it. :D

To Pein & Fiza: K. Nur, Abg Ariff, Fathini and Hafizah are going to pray for your happiness.

Congratulations To My Dearest Sis Awin!

Words can't really describe how I felt today when I received the news from my abah(father) that my youngest sister, Nur Amalin scored 8As for PMR. She repeated her brother's excellent result when Mohd Rasul scored straight As too last year. If only I can hug her now to tell her how proud I am as her eldest sis when she succeeded. adik2 ni lg pandai dr kakak sulung diarg yg hanya dpt 6A dlm PMR. huhu

She is quite close to me as I am the one who would defend her or be on her side when my other siblings teased her. When she was born, I was 16 years old and I only managed to see her during the school holiday. I was in one of the Residential school in Kedah and I would be able to take care of her during the school holiday. I remembered that she cried when I got married and she didn't want to let me stay at my in-laws house after our wedding reception in Kelana Jaya. masa tu dia baru berumur 9 thn!

What makes me so proud is she can stay focus on her study even after we lost our dearest mom last year. saya tahu ramai juga yg berjaya dlm hidup walaupun kehilangan ibu/bapa atau kedua2nya She was the one who really looked lost after we lost our mom. And yet she proved that she's strong and ready to take on any challenges.

Awin,

K.Nur, Abe Ariff, Tini and Fizah love you.

P/S: My other sis, Yatie had also written something about our beloved little sis. This is the link:

http://yatiechomeyl.blogspot.com/2009/12/ode-to-my-dear-awin.html