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Thursday, February 9, 2012

Regressing?

Salam,

As I've shared before, I'm expecting my third child now. It's already the 20th week. Hafizah my younger daughter is somehow showing some regressions in her development. I suspect that she is feeling jealous with the new coming baby. She becomes so sensitive, doesn't want to put on her clothes, doesn't want to wash and take a bath on her own and other habits. When I check on some reading from other websites, this is quite normal. It's always not easy for kids to accept any changes on their life. There's nothing much that we can do except for convincing her and of course paying more attention to her. She needs to know that we are still going to love her and nothing will ever change that. I always thought that if the gap is quite huge, it'll be easier for the kid to accept a new sibling. BUT I guess I was wrong. A 5-year-gap is apparently won't help Hafizah to accept the fact that a new sibling is taking over her place as the youngest in the family. Thus, we just have to keep finding ways to make her feel secured and loved.

Have you ever experienced this with your kids? How did you handle the situation?

10 comments:

Ladysirna FA said...

Dulu my anak pun sama..sometimes he was unpredictable and simply threw tantrum when i pregnantkan his adik.mula mula je tu..at last when adik arrived he was so happy n dia pulak yg sayang adik lebih. Sekarang je dah makin suka sakat adik balik

Lizan said...

adam dulu tak pe pulak...dia syg betul kat aqeel mgkin sbb dia pun time tu kecik lagi kot, takde pulak perangai rajuk2, lgpun dia tu mcm tak kisah menda2.. sbb lelaki kot..entah lah... jaga kandungan elok2 nur.. update la gambar baru.

yatie chomeyl said...

Do u Remember awin & I few years back? I was jealous towards her eventhough I was already 13 years old when she was born. Arwah ma used to have hard time to 'unite' us, gd luck 2 u then hehehe

Zie Fauzi said...

tahniah kak... jaga diri yer... zie nak share pun xde pengalaman lagi.... anak baru sorg...

transformed housewife said...

Fadilah: harap2 nanti adik dia dah lahir okla.

transformed housewife said...

K.Ijan: nanti Nur letak gambar terbaru dgn perut besar ni.

transformed housewife said...

Tie: I know what happened to u & Awin. Harap2 Fizah ok nanti.

transformed housewife said...

Zie: bila lg nak tambah jugak? hehe

She Wears Premium Beautiful said...

oh that is definitely very normal dear. they can sense the new 'competition' coming ahead.

Nadiah Sidek said...

kena banyak bagi perhatian kat fizah supaya dia tak rasa dia tersisih