Salam,
How would you feel if someone that you only knew when you were small suddenly want to be your best friend? Will you accept her? Will you feel comfortable when she keeps asking so many questions about your personal life? Will you feel okay if she is acting as if she is your stalker?
I have somebody who happens to also be my distant cousin. She wants to be my BF even though the last I saw her only when we were in primary school! I've never met or heard about her ever since. If she just want to say HI and ask casual questions, I don't really mind but when she has started asking weird questions and also send text messages to my mobile, I've felt so uncomfortable. I don't like the idea of sharing too much information with somebody that barely knows me. Whatever that I'm sharing in my blog too, I've made it not too personal except for experiences that other people can learn from them.
Am being paranoid or just plain snobbish if I choose to ignore her? I really don't want to have a relationship with someone who doesn't respect the boundaries. She always sends text messages at midnight and expect me to answer it immediately. Maybe I should also mention that she also has the HISTORY of having an unstable mind when she was small. That's another reason why do I feel so uncomfortable.
What do you reckon?
9 comments:
erk..baru nak cakap 'psikonya orang ni'..terbaca pula 'she has also has the HISTORY of having an unstable mind. kalau nadiah, takut kot. nak-nak dia bagi SMS tengah-tenagh malam dan nak kita balas cepat-cepat.
kalau kita ni masih bujang lagi takde la pelik sangat nak balas-balas mesej tengah malam tanpa hal penting. hati-hati je la kak nur
Kalau dh menyibuk psl personal kita mmg rasa tak selesa...
that sounds scary...
Nadiah: mmg takut. serba salah jdnya.
Affieza: itula. Kitaorg bukannya rapat pun.
MZ: it's indeed scary.
Sapo kak nur ?
Awin: tanyo K.Tie.
just ignore her, buat pening palo jah laye
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